May 27, 2010

what they don't get.

Swirling around thoughts about the opposite sex I have to communicate, because I feel sometimes that all hope is lost with them.

1. Being always agreeable isn't really an attractive trait. No matter how much girls say that just want a guy to tell them they're beautiful, often it doesn't cut it.

2. Never put me in a previous category of what you think a girl is like.

3. Flowers and things are just barely scratching the surface, get creative.

4. If you weigh less than me, it's probably not going to work. I tend to tackle people in hugs and I don't want to run you over.

5. When I'm your friend, I want to be your friend, don't assume anything otherwise, I will tell you if something is different. I am an extremely verbal person.

6. The less you talk, the more interesting you are.

7. When you crack a grin when I do something funny (aka drop something, fall, say something ridiculous), that is the way to earn brownie points. Not laughing obnoxiously loud. I may be funny, but not that funny.

8. I am very detail oriented, I pay attention to little things and appreciate them more than big things.

9. Just because we both love Jesus, doesn't mean it's meant to be.

10. I do not like being pursued when I have not given any indication that's what I want.

11. I know I sound like a control freak ;)

12. When I get pissed, I definitely am, and if you don't ever you kind of loose.

13. Please do not assume because you read everything I post on facebook that you know me. I lived with me for my whole life and I still feel rather clueless

14. I don't like push-overs. I like when a guy can stand his ground.

15. I don't like when people argue to simply argue, it's so dumb, so even a hint of that turns me waaay off.

16. I'm all about tone of voice, shouting really bothers me...even though sometimes I an be the queen of it. It just depends on the setting.

17. Don't try so hard, it looks silly. Be yourself, and don't try to get people to notice you.

18. Just because I like a TV show doesn't mean I'm the type of girl who must see all episodes.

19. I like man movies, possibly more than chick-flicks but not more than disney movies.

20. I should not be able to beat you up ;)

21. Just because I'm nice to you and laugh and smile around you, doesn't mean I'm falling for you.

That's what's up.
Girls are complicated, but don't get caught up on stuff like this. We will always be complicated.

2 comments:

  1. I love you Kelly, haha when you comment on my blogs it always amuses me

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